One night I was alone at home and drinking some whiskey as I started texting my husband, asking him about how things were in Singapore while i was gone.
We texted throughout the night and I got more drunk, and we started sending naughty photos to one another.
I took a few selfies of myself in VERY VULNERABLE positions, and sent them to him, but got no replies so I thought he was “using” the photo for his own pleasure.
I then slowly fell asleep.
The next morning, I opened my Whatsapp to see the photos that I had sent him and saw that his last message to me was “you there?” and I didn’t reply.
To my horror, I realised that I had actually send the photos to his mother instead, and she had seen it (there were the two blue ticks at the bottom).
My husband assured me that everything was fine and that his mother probably understands that it was a mistake.
I really don’t know how to react to this, and I am very embarrassed and don’t know how I am going to face my mother-in-law when i return.
Editor’s note: Wah this is the stuff of nightmares, good luck to you…
In a popular Facebook group dedicated to Foreign Domestic Workers (FDWs), a maid ignited a discussion by posing a unique question about her living conditions. The maid, who shares a bed with her employer’s dogs every night, reached out to her fellow helpers on the MDW in Singapore working conditions forum, asking if they would be willing to do the same.
The post sparked a mixed reaction within the group, with some expressing concerns about hygiene, personal space, and cultural differences, while others showcased their affection for dogs and willingness to share their sleeping space with their employer’s furry companions.
The Maid’s Unusual Sleeping Arrangement
The maid’s post in the MDW in Singapore Facebook group presented a scenario that might be considered unusual by some. Sharing details of her daily routine, she asked, “As an FDW, will you agree to sleep with your employer’s dogs? (meaning – same mattress, pillow, blanket?)”
Concerns Raised by Some Members
Upon reading the post, several group members raised valid concerns. Hygiene emerged as a prominent issue, with worries about the cleanliness of sharing sleeping quarters with animals. Personal space and cultural differences were also cited as reasons why some FDWs might prefer not to sleep in close proximity to dogs.
In contrast to the reservations expressed by some members, a significant portion of the group displayed a strong affinity for dogs. Many FDWs shared their love for these furry companions, considering them an integral part of their employer’s family. For these helpers, the prospect of sharing a bed with the employer’s dogs was met with enthusiasm and a sense of camaraderie.
The diverse responses highlighted the cultural sensitivity and individual preferences among FDWs. While some cultures may view sharing sleeping space with pets as commonplace, others might find it unconventional and downright degrading.
The discussion underscored the importance of recognizing and respecting these cultural nuances within the diverse community of domestic helpers in Singapore.
Netizens’ comments
me sometimes i bring the dog to my room and we slept together in my bed. if youre a pet lover too, its not an issue but its up to you if u want to sleep with the dog or not,, if not, just tell your employer that youre not comfortable to sleep with the pet
You actually don’t need others opinion about this. If you feel like it, do so. If not, then feel free to say no. What matters most is you standing on your ground. it is only you who can decide for yourself.
For me is a big no..
Even i am a pet lover,big no to sleep the same bed with the dog..because no matter what u clean the dog,still dirty and also i can’t sleep if there something keep on moving next to me.
A netizen shared a story about how he feels like he is getting used by a girl he met several months ago.
He stated that the girl already has a boyfriend but she still constantly seeks him for comfort.
Here is the story:
I am in a weird situation now, I have this friend or should I call it a special friend. We have a unique relationship that is only physical.
We hardly meet other than to go open room as we work very different jobs, I work in the IT sector and she works in insurance.
I meet clients and other nerds like me while she meets many rich people from her insurance job, I know that she not only finds clients through insurance but is also finding potential BF candidates.
So about 2 months ago, she told me that she has a boyfriend and we should stop engaging in such “activities”.
However, 2 weeks after she told me that she asked me to open the room again. We met in the room and she was equipped with branded luxury items from head to toe. The last time we met, she barely have any branded stuff.
She admits to me that she works insurance not only to get rich but also to meet rich future husbands but her so-called new boyfriend is always busy and does not have enough time to give her what she wants.
She has a very big drive and normally she is the one that asked me to open a room instead of me.
So she basically is using my body and using the riches from her boyfriend.
I understand that this kind of relationship is unhealthy but the temptation for free “hehehe” is too much.
I also know that I can’t be her boyfriend as this kind of woman is a gold vacuum cleaner.
In a startling incident at Suntec City Basement 2 carpark, a woman was captured on video trying to reserve a parking lot by standing in it with her young son, refusing to yield even as another car attempted to reverse into the space.
The dashcam footage of the incident, posted by the camcar driver on the SG Road Vigilante – SGRV Facebook page, raises questions about parking etiquette and safety.
The Incident Unfolds
The video, recorded on the netizen’s dashcam, documented the woman’s attempt to “chope” or reserve a parking lot by physically standing in it with her child.
The netizen, who was attempting to reverse into the parking space, observed that the woman remained stationary, seemingly unyielding, even as the car came dangerously close to both mother and son.
Dangerous Standoff
Despite the approaching car, the woman did not move, putting herself and her young son in potential danger as the vehicle aimed to occupy the contested parking spot.
The situation escalated when the driver of the recording vehicle, attempting to maneuver into the lot, encountered resistance from the woman.
It was only when the driver inched forward that the woman knocked on the car window, indicating her presence with the child, and stated, ‘Can’t you see I’m standing with my kid here.’ Unfortunately, the dashcam recording was muted, and the audio of the interaction was not captured.
Facebook Post Description
The netizen who shared the video on Facebook provided a caption that read, “Lady with kid tries to chope/reserve parking lot by standing in the lot. She noticed I’m reversing but didn’t move. It was only when I started to inch in a bit more; she started to knock on my car window, saying, ‘Can’t you see I’m standing with my kid here,’ but my cam recording was muted. Wasn’t able to capture the audio.”
The incident sparks a broader conversation about parking etiquette and safety within busy urban areas like Suntec City. Attempting to reserve a parking space by standing in it poses risks not only to the individual attempting to reserve but also to others navigating the carpark. It raises questions about the need for proper guidelines and awareness regarding parking conduct.
A friend in our common clique refuses to pay us back his share of the bill everytime we head out.
When reminded, he explains that he is ‘tight these days’ and will transfer us asap, however, it goes on for months and many of us don’t get our money back.
It’s not that we are unsympathetic towards his financial difficulties, but this friend seems to be clearly living beyond his means and we have to foot the bill for his indulgence.
For some context, this friend orders alcohol when the rest of us don’t, leading to his share of the bill becoming the largest.
When it’s time to get the bill, he magically disappears to the washroom.
We tagged him in the group all the time and pm him individually well but he just replies ‘ok will inform when i tsf’ or ‘am tight now’
Netizen’s comments
I sympathise with people who can’t afford their meals but to order beyond their means… that’s not it man. Growing up I didn’t have a lot of pocket money to go out with friends. I will try to order within my means even in a group setting. It’s basic curtesy to pay back, even if it’s your closest group of friends. I think just split the bill whenever you hang out with him. Like when he goes to the wash room, get the bill and pay individually. So when he’s back, he will have to deal with his own bills. He is obviously overstepping here.
In a recent turn of events, Malaysian actor-host Hero Tai Zu Xiong found himself amidst a controversy over comments he made about Singapore on a Taiwanese reality show, “Students Coming.”
The 37-year-old has now issued an apology, shedding light on the context of the episode and expressing regret for any offense caused, according to a report by The New Paper.
Understanding the Controversy
The episode in question centered around a ‘Singapore versus Malaysia’ theme, where verbal sparring between representatives of both countries was encouraged by the show’s producers.
Tai, who has been residing in Taiwan for 12 years, clarified that the entire premise was crafted for entertainment purposes and involved staged confrontations between the two sides.
The Apology and Contextualization
Speaking to TNP on December 25, Tai revealed that his scenes were selectively edited, leading to a distorted portrayal of his views on Singapore.
He emphasized that what seemed like dissatisfaction with Singapore was, in reality, a performance tailored to fit the show’s entertainment format. Tai expressed regret over any misunderstanding and clarified that the intention was never to genuinely criticize Singapore.
The Backlash
Tai, who is expecting a child with his 25-year-old Ukrainian wife, disclosed that he received numerous messages from Singaporean netizens, ranging from expressions of unhappiness to malicious insults and attacks.
He said that he “sincerely apologise to any Singaporeans whom I’ve upset”.
However, he condemned the extreme reactions, highlighting that differing opinions shouldn’t escalate to such levels of hostility. Tai appealed for a more positive online environment filled with love and peace.
In addition to the interview with TNP, Tai and his wife appeared on Singapore’s livestreaming platform Star Live to discuss the issue further.
Co-founder of Star Live and local actor Terence Cao joined the conversation, emphasizing the importance of understanding the full context before passing judgment based solely on headlines.
What He Said About Singapore
Zu Xiong asserted that popular Singaporean dishes such as chicken rice, char kway teow, bak kut teh, and nyonya kueh are all originally from Malaysia.
He invited the Taiwanese guests to list dishes they believed were Singaporean, countering each suggestion by claiming these were also Malaysian creations. He argued that these dishes existed in Malaysia before Singapore gained independence.
In response, a Singaporean guest defended the promotion of these dishes in Singapore as a form of cultural exchange, emphasizing the country’s efforts to showcase and popularize them.
Provocative Comments on Singaporean Attractions
Zu Xiong continued to provoke by labeling famous attractions in Singapore as “man-made.” He referred to Jewel’s Rain Vortex as a “man-made fountain,” Siloso Beach as a “man-made beach,” and Gardens by the Bay as “man-made botanic gardens.” In an additional controversial remark, he referred to Singaporean guests as “man-made people.”
Zu Xiong went further, advising potential visitors not to spend too much time in Singapore, claiming there’s not much to do. He recommended a three-day, two-night stay.
Delivery riders often navigate a challenging landscape daily, but one rider’s experience at Bartley Residences takes it to a new level.
Delivery rider @Lunakoh1989‘s frustration echoed through a TikTok video as he attempted to decipher the seemingly complicated layout of this condominium near Bartley MRT station.
The journey involved lifts, car parks, and a fortress-like structure, leaving Lunakoh1989 exclaiming it as the “worst” condo ever and declaring that he will never go back there ever again.
Lunakoh1989’s Odyssey: From Lift to Guard House
Lunakoh1989’s TikTok video showcased the perplexing journey he undertook within Bartley Residences. Exiting a lift at level B4, his quest to reach the guard house turned into a maze of multiple lifts and underground car parks. The rider’s frustration was palpable as he described the condominium as a daunting fortress.
What makes Bartley Residences stand out in its complexity? Lunakoh1989’s labeling of it as the “worst” stems from its intricate layout and the need to take three lifts just to exit.
The video paints a picture of a fortress-like space, adding an extra layer of difficulty for delivery riders.
Finally reaching the drop-off pavilion, Lunakoh1989 vowed never to return, blacklisting the condominium due to its challenges. He suggested a simple solution: allowing delivery riders to use bicycles within the complex.
However, according to him, this was prohibited by the condominium’s management, raising questions about the balance between security and rider convenience.
Suspension of Teppan Kappou Kenji, the Food Shop at 99 Tanjong Pagar Road, 1st Storey, Singapore 088520, under the Points Demerit System
1 The Singapore Food Agency (SFA) will be suspending the licence of Teppan Kappou Kenji, the Food Shop at 99 Tanjong Pagar Road, 1st Storey, Singapore 088520, under the Points Demerit System. The period of suspension is two weeks from 20/12/2023 to 02/01/2024 (both dates inclusive).
2 The licensee has accumulated 12 demerit points within a 12-month period and was fined a total of $800 for the following offences:
No.
Offence
Demerit Points
(1)
Failure to register assistant
6
(2)
Failure to keep licensed premises free of infestation
6
3 Based on track records, a licensee who accumulates 12 or more demerit points within a 12-month period may have his licence suspended for a period of either two or four weeks, or cancelled. All food handlers working in the suspended premises would also be required to re-attend and pass the WSQ Food Safety Course Level 1, before they can resume work as food handlers. The licensee is also required to ensure that all food hygiene officers working in the suspended premises, if any, re-attend and pass the WSQ Food Safety Course Level 3.
4 SFA takes a serious view of these offences and would like to remind food operators to observe good food and personal hygiene practices at all times, and to engage only registered food handlers. SFA will not hesitate to take firm action against anyone found to be in violation of the Environmental Public Health Act.
5 In the interest of maintaining a high standard of food hygiene at all eating establishments, we would also like to advise members of the public who come across poor food safety practices in food establishments not to patronise such outlets and provide feedback via the online feedback form (https://www.sfa.gov.sg/feedback) or to call our SFA Contact Centre at 68052871 with details for our follow-up investigations.
I have been married a year and I feel a strong urge to run.
Hello. Has anyone ever been through this situation? I feel a strong urge to run from my marriage. I just can’t stand him anymore.
We are polar opposites. We knew it but we didn’t know how much it would affect us. I feel so miserable and so unhappy.
He is spoiled and hates helping out at home. Whenever he needs to do something he complains about it and throw temper tantrums like a kid.
He just want to sit around drink coffee and play games all day.
One shred of responsibility is welcomed with complains. He wants kids but I honestly don’t feel safe having children with him, because I feel like as an adult he does such a poor job handling the very little he is responsible for.
As a parent I will probably take on 200% of the load. I am so turned off and discouraged, I just want to run.
We had several conversations about his behavior. He acted like he wants to change, but that always last just 2 days. He will never grow up. I love him, but I can’t see myself living like this forever.
Is there a way to turn this around? I am honestly so close to throw the towel.
I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years.
We had a lot of trust and understanding between us. But recently, things had become a bit stale between us and I wanted to spice things up. So I decided to do something that I thought would make him feel more comfortable and make us closer.
I asked my boyfriend to wear a skirt when we were at home.
At first, he was a little confused. He asked me why I wanted him to wear a skirt and I told him that it would give us an opportunity to be more intimate. I told him that it would make me feel more comfortable and intimate when I could grab his D anytime I wanted.
He thought it was a strange request and he was a little embarrassed. But I assured him that I would make sure he felt comfortable wearing a skirt and that it wouldn’t be a big deal. I also told him that it would be a great way to spice up our relationship, which I think he was hesitant about.
After a few days of convincing, he finally agreed to wear a skirt at home with me. He was a bit hesitant at first, but once he realized how much it meant to me, he was willing to do it.
The first few times he wore a skirt, he was a little uncomfortable. But after a few weeks, he started to feel more comfortable in it and he even started to enjoy it. He felt like he was able to express himself more and he was able to show his true self to me.
I was really happy that he was willing to do this for me. I felt like it was a great way to show my love and appreciation for him. And I was also happy that he was able to feel more comfortable in his own skin.
Now, whenever we are at home, my boyfriend always wears a skirt and I love it. It makes me feel more intimate with him and I love being able to grab him down there anytime I want. It has definitely added a lot of spice to our relationship and I think it has made us even closer.
