helloo everyone this is gonna be quite a lengthy one pls bear with me!
I’m an introverted 19yo guy who’s very obviously single but trying to change that(hence the post), but I just don’t know how? I know it’s not important for ppl my age to date cuz of studies but I think that I am emotionally ready and mature enough to start dating.
However, the problem is I’m very awkward irl and literally never had a proper 1-1 conversation with girls irl ever since sec school due to being in a course consisting almost entirely of males.
So this tells alot about my ability to interact properly with girls. And as an introvert I find it almost out of question to just approach a random girl and try to pick her up.
I’d like to slowly build a connection with someone and see if we hit if off but as you can see from above I don’t have anyone to do that with? I also tried dating apps but let’s just say I haven’t had much luck there.
Personality wise I’m quite easy going and get along well with people without having beef with anyone but if I’m comfortable with someone I actually have a decent sense of humour and become slightly more extroverted.
I wouldn’t say my looks is the problem cuz many people have questioned how I stayed single my whole life despite looking like the way I do(imo they give me too much credit but I’m probably just average or slightly above at best). I’m just tired of being invisible to girls and would like to have tips on how to start connections as an introvert.
Also if ur just gonna say I should hold pen not hold hand and blah blah blah, I’m doing well in my studies currently and I feel that this is an appropriate time for me to start exploring so let pls me live my life 🙂