In a troubling incident that unfolded in Jurong West, Singapore, a 21-year-old man reportedly smashed his ex-girlfriend’s phone following their breakup, leading to a confrontation with her family and a male friend. The events took place on November 3, 2024, after the young couple ended their two-month relationship.
According to reports from Shin Min Daily News, the man, whose identity has not been disclosed, became upset after his ex-girlfriend decided to end their relationship. In a fit of anger, he damaged her phone, prompting her to reach out to him the following day to discuss the situation. They agreed to meet at his grandmother’s flat that evening.
Upon his ex-girlfriend’s arrival, she was accompanied by her father, older brother, and a 16-year-old male friend. They confronted the man about the damaged phone, demanding to know how he intended to compensate her. When he suggested paying in installments, the family found his response unsatisfactory and insisted he step outside to discuss the matter further.
Escalation of Violence
The situation escalated quickly when the ex-girlfriend’s male friend allegedly punched the man multiple times in the face. The altercation only ceased when the man’s grandmother intervened. Following the incident, the man sought medical attention for his injuries and subsequently filed a police report.
The man’s father, who spoke to the media, recounted that his son and the ex-girlfriend had met through social media in September 2024. The father expressed regret over his son’s impulsive actions, acknowledging that the breakup had deeply affected him. He noted that the confrontation was fueled by emotions, leading to the destruction of the phone.
In a series of messages exchanged between the two, the ex-girlfriend reportedly told the man to “grow up” and made derogatory remarks, although the context of these messages was not fully detailed in the report.
Police Involvement and Ongoing Investigations
After the initial confrontation on November 3, the man had called the police when his ex-girlfriend and her friend showed up at his residence. However, they left before officers arrived. The following day, after the violent encounter, the police were called again, and both the ex-girlfriend’s father and friend were asked to return to provide statements.
The Singapore Police Force confirmed that they received a call for assistance on November 4, 2024, and noted that the man sustained minor injuries but did not require hospitalization. The 16-year-old male friend is currently assisting with investigations related to the incident of voluntary causing hurt.
As of January 3, 2025, the man’s father reported that there had been no further updates regarding the assault case. He also mentioned that he compensated the ex-girlfriend for her damaged phone, transferring S$1,399 to her as restitution.
This incident highlights the complexities and emotional turmoil that can arise from relationship breakups, as well as the potential for conflicts to escalate into violence. Police investigations are ongoing, and authorities are working to address the situation appropriately.