I F23 broke up with my M56 boyfriend. He was the love of my life.
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I am currently in bits. I think I have been gaslit. I need this guy for work (gigs). I see him and everything is perfect for one week and then the next he has his daughter (16) with him I barely get a message.
I really love him. He’s the best thing to ever happen to me. I can’t stand the inconsistency though. My period is also late and he just doesn’t care.
He is so gorgeous and intelligent and talented. I am nothing without him. I’ve never experienced so many new things in my life and been taught so much. Please help me.
Netizens’ comments
- WTF is happening in this world? He could be your dad, his kid is close to your age…. This is so gross. So so gross
- You deserve an all-in relationship. You deserve not to have to question your partner’s commitment to you. You deserve to feel like an equal partner.
- You do not love him, you were groomed and now with a good Stockholm syndrome.
- Heartbreaks are extremely painful. I went thru one a little over a year ago. I didn’t even know I could feel so many kind of pain all at once. But I let it go, and i got thru it and you will too. I know that everything hurts right now. Feeling like you’re falling apart, drowning and in pain. But you will survive. I hope you have a good support system to help you thru this. My friends were there for me every step of the way. But keep in mind that not all friends will be there for you, & that will hurt too.
You might blame yourself for the break up but eventually you will be able to see that you dodged a bullet. You didn’t give much context about the relationship. & Idk your background & trauma but Im going to point out the obvious. You’re so young & he’s old af. He probably manipulated you, gaslit you, and used you. He took advantage of you. Im sure there are other people out there that could have done the same for you and career without taking advantage of you.
When i was going thru my heartbreak, I spent a lot of time outdoor with nature. Maybe you should give it a try. Time will ease the pain, and you will heal. You’re not okay right now but you will be. Maybe it will take a month, half a year, a year or even longer but you will be okay. You’re gonna slowly collect the pieces and be whole again. You will learn to live with the new you. & when you’re ready, you’ll find someone thats more compatible for you.
& girl, don’t contact him. Go no contact (if possible).