I honestly think im gonna be alone forever (romantically)
Im 24(f), V, never have been in a relationship other than a couple one night kiss in clubs. Like seriously now it just feels weird to imagine myself in a relationship.
My friends ask me if i honestly believe im gonna be alone forever and i so confidently tell them that yes i do. And i know i believe this.
Some say that that’s really sad, others say that it won’t happen, that one day i will find someone. But honestly, many people die alone and never marry, never are in a relationship, and then they die alone in their house.
Why couldn’t that happen to me?
Idk i think about this so much it keeps me up at night. People say not to stress about it, that “one day love will come” but i feel that’s nonsense. You either get lucky or you don’t.
Netizens’ comments
I don’t think it’s down to luck. It’s more like you either put yourself out there or don’t. If you are content in being alone in your own company and building a life onward without a romantic partner, then that is what will more than likely happen. You’ll sort of manifest that lifestyle.
If not, you’ll find someone you like and they’ll like you, and you’ll build a life together and make it work if that’s what you both want.