I’m a 24m that will be graduating this year i’ve been dating this girl(37F) for 11 years.
Not going to the detail how it started, except she was my maths tutor since P5. My parents aren’t aware of our relationship but I’ve tested them before and they were generally accepting of large age gap.
My guy friends treat me like a champ for a hot OL gf. While the girls think that it’s some what acceptable
We recently met a couple, 36M and 25F that have been dating for 10 years. But their treatment is completely 180.
I can’t help to think why at this age we still have such ancient thinking when it comes to love. Shouldn’t age gap be okay as long as you don’t screw and dump?
- Age gap is secondary issue, the main issue is character and thinking. The older party may have consideration of settling down and starting a family, while the younger party may have a YOLO mentality want to have fun see the world first. Thats the number 1 reason why large age gap relationship doesn’t work out and parents maybe concern in general not much about traditional thinking unless your parents are those very old generation ones
- Another factor to consider is when you guys wanna have kids after marriage. She’s at high risk age now & the risk will keep growing year by year.
- Did I see it wrong here? Age gap is not the issue but the person character that is the main issue.. Although your parents may seem ok, but it would be better to talk to them about it after all your parents need to meet up with her one day.. like for me and my hub.. he is older than me 10 years but despite the many differences, we still manage to understand and forgive each other at the end of the day.. most importantly you have been dating 11 years, if she has no plans on marrying you, I guess better give up
- Hello boy! You were groomed la It’s not real love, it’s Stockholm syndrome