still a virgin at 25…. is it too late for me?
never been with a girl, kissed a girl, or hooked up with a girl. I’m just about 26 and feels like I missed out on being active in bed in my youth.
Can’t stop feeling sorry for myself about it. Never had the confidence to go and put myself out there because I always felt I had a lot of things against me, like my short height 1.65m and babyface that makes me still look 16.
Plus, some girls called me ugly before……idk but maybe just feels like I’m not meant to experience love and all that in this life…..
can I turn it around? And turn it around fast? This might be my last chance to I’m thinking…
- Something that helped me out a lot is realizing that I always went for girls out of my league. At one point, I thought a (less conventionally attractive) girl had a crush on me, so I gave it a chance even though there was less of a spark. Eventually I lost my virginity to her, and I gotta say: the feeling of being desired and validated is amazing even if the person isn’t super hot.
Another thing to keep in mind is that if you feel lonely, there’s a lot of people who can relate. Dating apps have a skewed gender ratio—2 or 3 guys for every girl—so a lot of guys repeatedly face rejection and have to deal with loneliness. The best thing you can do is put in consistent effort, and at some point you’ll get lucky.
- Definitely never too late! I know plenty of late bloomers and they’re doing just fine. You just have to find the right person.
And there are plenty of us women who don’t care about height whatsoever. Don’t worry about that too much. Just try to make connections with the people around you and eventually you’ll meet someone.
- Its ok nothing worry to about, socialise with girls ,You will find one work the system stay healthy, be confident
- I’m short too and used to have a baby face. I’m 29 now. As you get older your face will mature, inevitably every person will look older at some point in their life and less “youthful.” Facial hair makes a difference, a lot. Guys that have facial hair look older vs without, grow facial hair. Even if you can’t get a full beard and stache its still better. Also try exercising more. Often people that are “babyfaced” have a lot of face fat. The less face fat you have, the more defined your facial features will be like your jaw, chin, cheeks, etc… I remember when I was 26 and I did look a lot younger than I do now so trust me it’ll happen in time. i’m approaching my 30s and I actually wish I look younger than I do now.