I have the most useless brother. He is 33 yrs old and couldnt find a job since he graduated from uni. Since we are not on talking terms since i was 17/18, he persuaded through my mom to ask me to get him a job in the reputable company that i am in as an HR.
I refused as I feel he doesn’t even have the balls to ask me then why should i put my reputation on the line for him. He was asked to go after 2/3 mths in his first job because apparently, he didn’t perform well. My mom said he had to do many OT during that time and he was very reluctant to do OT.
He complains that the office is far away in AMK. At that time, I was already close to working for 4 years in AMK area in a different company.
After he is unemployed, for the first few mths, he watched k dramas all day and lay in bed all day. He didn’t help with chores and expected my mom to clean his room. It was only when my dad decided to teach him handyman skills and gave him the headstart to form a client base that he finally has some form of income to this day.
Whenever he is angry, he will scold my mom and slam the door in her face.
He will sometimes poke or hit her on her head, thinking is funny. If he is angry with me, he will be passive-aggressive and destroys my personal stuff. We ignore each other like ghosts in the house. Even at family or formal events, whenever people ask about us, he doesn’t acknowledge me and avoids answering any questions that relate to me. I noticed it and react the same.
I feel no love and vowed not to have anything to do with him if anything happens. Recently been looking to do up my own will, I want to make sure that none of my money and assets will go to him in any way. He doesn’t exist.