I’m a 33 year old man who is short, fat, balding, still a virgin and the bearer of a small “down there”. It was over for me before it began.
I also work a low paying job so I’m not wealthy enough to offset any of these flaws let alone all of them combined.
It’s okay though. I’ve made my peace with it. This is who I am and what my life is. Ultimately the only thing I could change to make myself more attractive would be my weight and even then I don’t think it would help much.
It’s okay and like I said I have more of less made peace with it. I understand that life isn’t fair and that I’ll probably meet someone in time but things definitely suck right now.
Bro, this will sound harsh, but it’s coming from a good place.
The sooner you realiza that you’re the one putting the barrier on yourself, and that you have the power to change for the better, the better your life will get.
Like hey, you’re balding, you’re short and your pee-pee is small.But those are invariables, wallowing and feeling bad about it won’t change.
You’re weight however, you 100% control that. Your attitude? In your control.
I was in a really dark place some years ago, and I let myself go overweight, my dating life wasn’t going good, I was depressed, and I felt bad about myself. I get where you’re coming from, I’ve been there
All I’m saying is that, there are things you can control. Stop feeling sorry about yourself, and you’ll be surprised by how much you can achieve.
All I’m saying is try. Try to not feel like a victime of life, try to get fit. Try to change your perspective. Try to live a life that you want to live. Try to enjoy your time in this earth.
Cause even if you fail, (which I don’t think you will), doesn’t that sound like a more enjoyable life?
You got this man, don’t give up on yourself, it’s never too late to start