Will I find the one?
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Due to constant childhood traumas during my formative years, i have grown up with esteem issues.
Whenever I try to build a relationship with friends and the opposite, I find it hard to open up to people. This has resulted in me being forever green. Personally, i have never shared this with any friend or family members.
This year, I am 34/m…..quite old. At my age, most of my social circles are segregated into married, married with children and singles. The single pool is getting smaller. That means more Netflix and home time.
Do you think it is possible to find the one with such mental walls around me?? Should I just give up and start building a fulfilling single life instead??
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This is not a rant…just seeking advice.
Here are what netizens think:
- Don’t waste time on Netflix. Go out and socialise. There are guys looking for ppl like you. Read books on how to improve yourself and be confident in life.
- Can one, don’t give up. But I think firstly, you need to take the 1st step forward to go out and meet ppl. You don’t need to force yourself to talk alot(but must talk lah) but surely you can find your own kind. Introverts understand introverts. You just need to find them, they are seeking for you too.
- 34 is not old. I met my hubby when both of us is 34. Still hv chance to meet new friends but zero chances if u keep staying at home or watch Netflix or don’t take the first step.
- I have introverted friends who found their partners and are happily married now. You need to take the first step. Can go for therapy to help with your trauma.