I’m a 35yo kissless, handholdless virgin and I’m going on my first date ever this Saturday.
I’m so unbelievably nervous I almost have a panic attack thinking about it. A female co-worker from another department asked me out on a date and she’s prettier than any woman I ever thought would go for me plus she’s always been friendly to me.
I accepted but holy f I’m already so nervous I feel sick. I don’t know what to say or what to wear or what to do. I’m still in shock I guess.
Women have never shown an interest in me before, literally never. I’m overweight, not that good looking and have been balding since I was 24.
I’m almost afraid this is some kind of prank. She made it clear this is a romantic date and not a platonic one.
I’ve spent all day reeling and I’m actually going clothes shopping today to at least get a nice new shirt. I know the odds are against me here but if I mess this up it won’t be because of how I look.
I’m also getting a haircut too. I’m really happy and excited but I’m also so anxious about it I feel sick to my stomach. Any advice is welcome.