A 35-year-old man shared how he is almost 35 years old with a stable job, great hobbies and friends to hang out with.
But he still can’t find a girlfriend and he cries at night because he thinks he will be single for the rest of his life.
He shares that he rarely gets past the 1st or 2nd dates.
Here is the story:
“Why is the feeling to find a partner in life so strong? I’m almost 35 now, not rich, but have a stable job I like doing, got great hobbies and friends to hang out with. Day to day, I feel quite satisfied with life.
Yet the feelings of loneliness still hits once in a while. Sometimes I lie awake at night just sobbing about how I’ll likely be single for the rest of my life.
I’ve been dating people through apps and events since Tinder came out almost ten years ago, attended all those government organised dating events regularly, but dates rarely got past the first or second dates. Even for those that we managed hang out longer, they always end with reasons like “I don’t get that sort of feeling with you”, “I don’t see how we can be together in the future” or “I think we’re better as friends”. This is my experience from going out on probably hundreds of dates.
How do I stop this feeling of loneliness? I’m tired of dating, I’ve come to terms with how I will always be single, but it doesn’t stop me from feeling miserable when it hits.”
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