I’m 21 years old. I was in a relationship with my 38 year old boyfriend for three months. We had a good relationship and I had no reason to doubt him. That is until recently.
It all started six months ago when I started to notice my boyfriend acting a bit strange around me. He was avoiding any physical contact and when we did have “S”, he would never put on a “condom”rubber”. When I asked him why he, he said he was allergic to wearing rubber down there.
At first, I believed him. He had never lied to me before and I trusted him completely. So, I let him continue to not wear a every time. Little did I know…..
this would eventually lead to me getting pregnant.
It wasn’t until a few weeks later that I began to suspect something was off. I started to notice that he was avoiding me more and more, especially when I asked him about the pregnancy. That’s when I started to suspect he was lying about being allergic to wearing rubber down there.
After a few days of investigating, I finally found out the truth. He wasn’t allergic to wearing rubber down there, he was just too embarrassed to admit that he didn’t want to wear a condom because he wanted to enjoy more.
He had lied to me this whole time and I felt like a fool for believing him.
I was so angry and hurt that he had lied to me like this. I had trusted him completely and he had betrayed that trust. It was a hard pill to swallow and I’m still struggling to come to terms with it.
He eventually went MIA on me and now I am stuck with a child.
I will never forget the fact that my ex-boyfriend lied to me about being allergic to wearing rubber down there. I was so naïve and trusting and he took advantage of that.
I got pregnant because of his lie and that’s something I will never forget.