I’m 20 this year and I have been seeing a guy who is 39 years old for the past six months and when we met he told me he was 31.
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We met on a dating app and hit it off immediately. While we are not in a relationship, we agreed early on to be exclusive.
Today I did a name search on Google and I found photos and profiles of him and found out that he is actually 39 and I do not know how to confront him with this info because then I’ll have to explain how I found out.
How do I confront him without it seeming like I was snooping/stalking him?
Netizens’ comments
- You are blind when you see the ku ku bird, as long the ku ku bird is working does it matter?
- You have all the right to confirm what he’s been telling you. If he gets mad for it, and accuses you of not trusting him, he would be just changing topic from the actual problem: he lied.
- You have to decide for yourself if your relationship with him is more important than the fact that he’s been hiding stuff from you. It’s entirely your choice. But as a rule of thumb, if you feel like you can’t discuss a problem with a partner, you should probably move away from them. Your need for truth and stability has to be respected, it shouldn’t have consequences for you, because that’s basically manipulation.
- Girl, I mean this as kindly as possible, but the fact that this (potentially hurting his feelings and/or him having a bad opinion of you) is your main concern, instead of “how do I dump this creep ASAP” is exactly why he’s seeking out S with women almost 20 years younger than him.
- Who ask you to think with your cb