41M but attracted to 27F
I’m 41M, married with 3 kids. I pride myself as being a faithful, loyal person. I’ve not been to siam dius or KTVs although I have friends who do, because I never wanted to be caught in a situation of being unfaithful.
Recently, for work project purposes, I got to know a 27F. She is smart, talented and fun to work with. For some reasons, I find myself attracted to her. As our project ended, we started to text on other matters, like work gossips, and every few sentences with lots of emojis.
I start to think about her. And feel stressed about it. I don’t want to be a TCJ or LP.
But I can’t control it.
I guess the best way is to start avoiding, less communicating.
We can’t control our feelings and our affections, but we can control our actions.
Sorry if it has to go this way. Wish you well…
Here are what netizens think:
- Nothing to be sorry about. Good that you’re acting like what you should be doing.
- You can feel alot of things and not act on it. Dosen’t mean if you feel attracted then you need to pursue something with this lady. At the end of the day,you owe that loyalty to your wife. Just let it remain a feeling. I’d also think about keeping some distance if you’re feeling so attracted to her that it’s affecting you
- You don’t hv to act on temptations. Let it come, let it go. Be strong.
- Human emotions are complicated lah. The good news is you still have the ability to override impulses.
- Just go and confess. She will turn you down, then it’s the end of story. If she don’t turn you down, well, come post on sgwhisper again so we have something to read when we’re bored.