A man that my mom rejected in back school messaged me on Facebook today, saying he’s been waiting for me to be 18…
18f here. I don’t really know where to start but, today I got a Facebook message from someone named “David” asking me if I was available to chat.
Now normally I don’t even answer random requests but I saw he had a few mutual friends with me (one being my mom) I figured if she knew him then maybe he’s not a creeper.
I reply, saying yes and asked why he was messaging me. He then says that he’s about my moms age (she’s 42) and that about their last year in school he asked her out and she sadly rejected him because she only wanted to date tall men.
I say that’s pretty unfortunate, but maybe he’s confused cause I don’t have anything to do with that. He said he’s been waiting for me to turn 18 and would’ve messaged sooner after my birthday but he’s been in jail. Yikes…
He then sends a long paragraph explaining that he has vowed ever since that day that he would marry one of her daughters and since my twin sister seemed uninterested in men, and that my older sister was far too old for him, he decided to go after me.
Meaning he’s stalked all of our profiles…..
He said my body didn’t even look like I had a kid and that he’s glad I’m so petite unlike my mother. Added that he’d gladly accept my son in our new life. I stopped him right there and said I was in a relationship and was definitely not interested in someone who was as old as my mom!
He said he had money and a house and was far better in bed than the “man child” of a boyfriend I had. That this was his chance to prove to my mom that she messed up. I stopped replying, sent the screenshots to my mom and she was mortified. We’ve both blocked him and had a good laugh.
Moral of the story, don’t keep in touch or add your rejected school friends on Facebook or else they may try to date your kids when they’re 18 :,)