A guy shared his story online of how he broke out from the stage of being forever alone after being in that stage for 8 years and thought that all hopes of finding a partner were lost.
He hopes that by sharing his experiences and thoughts of how he went through the period, he can encourage other brothers and sisters who are in the same situation as he was before.
8 years is a long time so we took out the main points and did a summary of what he shared to cut the long story short and make it easier for all to read.
Here is the story (edited)
“I feel that a lot of people, in their pursuit of love, miss the forest for the trees. Instead of using your money and your time to valiantly try and sweep a girl (or a guy, if that’s your thing), off her feet, improve yourself instead. Be the best, most interesting, possible human being you can be.
Before you judge me and stop reading I would like you guys to trust me as I have been single for the longest time (8 years) and just got out of it.
Subscribe to a gym membership and work out. Read as much as possible and nurture your intellect. Try out as many activities as possible – rock climbing, wake-boarding, playing board games, etc. Travel alone with just a backpack and a wide open mind.
You’ll become more confident, more attractive, both physically and mentally, and along the way, you’ll meet a lot more people. Along the way, I guarantee you that you’ll find someone. In fact, you’ll find a lot of people whom you’re attracted to, and who are attracted to you too.”
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