I am in a friend with benefits relationship with a guy who happens to be an old friend of mine too. I find myself developing feelings for him.
Despite knowing that I give more than I receive, I secretly hope that one day he will return the favour and like me back. I don’t dare to confess to him again as I was rejected once for asking to be official.
These days, I just feel so tired of being the giver. He always ask for b* and h*, but he doesn’t want to do back to me or satisfy my needs. Even when I kiss him, he would reluctantly let me kiss.
He doesn’t want his friends to know that he has an fwb as he wants to maintain his pristine image as a GCB and a V (he lost it to me already).
I think he knows that I like him, and is making use of me physically, mentally (in terms of listening ear and support) and semi-financially. My birthday celebration with him was a spilt of the bill as well.
I feel that I should let him go, but it is just so difficult because I’m so attached to him and I’m so comfortable around him. I don’t even want to meet other guys or take other guys as FWB. I just want him.
What should I do?
Here are what netizens think:
FWB get everything from u and split the bill on your birthday?? More like he benefit more than u. He get all the song song part while u get all the miserable part.
Funny. Why are you posting this when u already decided that you don’t want to leave him?
Why waste your youth on such guy, aiyoHe dont treasure you well, why still let him treat you like thatCome on girl just let go and find someone worth your time and value you. You go girl!
Sorry but actually he is doing the right thing to you as a FWB.Maybe he is only comfy to be FWB with you and once you tries to be more than a FWB, he needs to react in these manners to “push” you back to FWB mindset.
You really out here thirsting for a guy who doesn’t reciprocateÂ