A netizen shared how great it is being single because you can do whatever you want and not care about what anyone else thinks.
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I dunno why there seems to be a lot of lonely people looking for love. Not that it’s anything wrong, but I feel people here might had forgotten how to enjoy being single.
Newsflash, when you’re attached, there’s a lot of single things you can’t do. Depending on how open or closes your SO is, that means a lot of adapting to do.
Hell being single is great, you get to do everything a couple would do, but yourself. Go watch a movie yourself, have a meal yourself. Nobody is gonna care if you do shit on your own, so just enjoy it. You don’t have to care about what the other party likes or dislikes, and you can do things for yourself.
Envy is the thief of joy. Everyone is gonna find love (or not) at different times. It’s not some race. What makes you think finding another person is gonna mean happiness?
Besides, how you expect others to love you when you don’t love yourself?
I think this is especially so for guys, and guys in Singapore. The whole societal pressure for men to look for a love interest seems very intense. Somehow people judge you ‘being single = forever alone’ which obviously is:
- not true
- harmful to a person’s self esteem.
FYI, just because I say to love yourself doesn’t mean you still can’t find love. What I mean is there’s no need to beat yourself up just because all your friends are attached and posting valentine’s day ig stories or etc. On their social media feed.
So this valentines day, don’t forget to love yourself. 😎👉
Happy valentine’s day