A man was cheating on his wife, who found out about it and now he is finding it hard to leave his mistress.
Here is the story
I’m in my early 40s and have 2 young toddler kids. Flame of romance died out when kids came into the picture, had an affair and wife found out etc.
Now we are apart and living separately while trying to figure out what we want.
For her she isn’t keen to give another chance out of fear that this will repeat (this is not the first time).
While everyone is asking me to do the right thing for children, I’m having trouble letting go of the affair.
Almost every thought I have, activity reminds me of what I had with the other party. And it feels like I could be vulnerable and honest with the other party while with the wife I always couldn’t and always keep secrets from – for fear of being judged or seen to be disgusting or perverse.
Wondering if there are people here who have divorced and have children and whether it’s as bad as it sounds in terms of children’s growth.
Bcos the other party seems to be my “Twin Ray”.