A couple of days ago my wife had a dream where I cheated on her and later leaving her to live with the other woman. She told me about her dream in the morning, clearly distressed. Trying to defuse the situation, I decided to create a funny origin story of the girl I was seeing in her dream. I named her Barney (like the purple dinosaur), and no one actually has this name in SG and I thought it added volume and certain mystery and funny to her character.
The next day I posted a funny comment on a Facebook page, and received a Haha reaction from a user named Barney. I thought it was hilarious and showed it to my wife, who promptly sent me to sleep on the sofa and accuse me of cheating.
This is ridiculous for getting blame for a stupid dream she had. The worse part of this, the person who commented was a guy…
What should I do? She refuses to speak to me.
Here are what netizens think:
- Tell your wife to grow up, tell her you dream she cheating with a purple dinosaur see how she reacts
- I once had a GF who dreamed I cheated on her. She got mad at me, because she claimed it meant I must be doing something to make her subconscious tell her that I was cheating. After we broke up (unrelated to the dream), I found out she had cheated on me several times.
- Normally when someone thinks that their parthner is cheating they are the ones who are cheating and I dare to say it is 90% of the time.
- I have dreams of my bf cheating on me all the time. I just wake up kinda sad and go cuddle him. Having super relastic feeling dreams suck but you can’t take it out on others. I feel the pain of it usually when I wake up but come to reality quickly and just go cuddle. What else is there to possibly do?