I met a girl, and we hit it off straight away. The second date we slept with each other and it was hot af. We dated more, got to know each other more, had a blast. Every time in bed is phenomenal, in awe of each other. Both open-minded and communicative, we play each other’s fantasies and have loads of fun.
We both started out not wanting anything too serious, but feelings started creeping in. Both trying to be a bit guarded, I maybe showed more than her, but it’s teasing and flirty and just a hint of vulnerability.
Relatively remote relationship, we see each other at weekends (both work ft) and the occasional midweek booty call, Oh Yeahhh
We have a wonderful weekend together, romantic walks, fine wine, great “exercise”, awesome company, even joke loads about falling for each other. Genuinely have a great time.
Following weekend she has a night out with friends.
Everything changes.
I go see her on the Saturday after, hangover cures inbound, snacks, drinks etc. She is cagey and distant, cites mental health issues. I am cool, we play boardgames and eat food and she feels better. I feel like a good boyf.
Next two weeks she is off point and my instincts are screaming, we “did it” again but the fireworks are gone. We hang out but its a bit awkward. Since then she put me aeroplane twice.
I repeatedly ask her if there is something wrong, something on her mind. She fobs me off.
By this point it’s obvious to me she is guilty of something, written all over her face.
I have to ask flat out if she cheated, she comes clean, slept with a random night out with her friends. I end the relationship there. Not here to be cheated on, that’s properly bad behaviour.
But I can’t for the life of me figure out why? Why would she do that? When genuinely things were going great and we were having an awesome time together?