I’m 26 and my boyfriend ‘James’ is 28.
So, I was born with a wide nose. I was insecure of my appearance because of it – so when I was 22 (4 years ago), I got a nose job. It helped 100% with my insecurity, and I love my new nose.
Fast-forward to 6 months ago – I got together with James. I didn’t think I needed to mention I got my nose done – because it’d be weird to randomly “Oh by the way, I had surgery for my nose!”. Also, it didn’t matter – as I got it done long before I met him.
Yesterday, James was talking about nose jobs. His best friend’s wife was looking for a good plastic surgeon and he asked if I knew of any. The doctor I went to was amazing (professional and friendly), so I recommended him. James then asked me how I knew this doctor. I said “A few years ago I got my nose done at his clinic”.
He looked at me in shock for several seconds then blew up. He yelled saying that I had no intention to tell him, and that I was lying to him for all these months. He was so hurt – saying “So when will you tell me that you got lip-fillers? Or botox? Or lipo?”.
I was shocked and said I only got my nose done. It wasn’t even that drastic, but he seems to be unable to trust me anymore. He said he needs some time to think about ‘us’ – and I can’t believe it went this far. To me, it’s pretty trivial, but I feel bad for ‘keeping this from him’ (even though it wasn’t my intention).Â
Here are what netizens think:
- Who care? as long end of the day he gets his B job.
- Seriously. They’ve been dating 6 months. Is she supposed to have somehow filled him in on her entire life during that time? It’s not as if he had previously asked her if she’d had plastic surgery and she denied it.
- i genuinely dont understand what he’s so upset about. Like who cares if you got a nose job? Its not really his business anyway since it was so long before you got with him. Rethink ya relationship with that dude he sounds unstable