I hate how men value my body count
To start this out I’m 23 and have slept with 36 men which I know is more than average but it’s my life I wanted to have all the fun I can.
In the last year I’ve calmed down and want to settle down and find a man to settle down with and start a family but that’s impossible.
When I match with a guy or just meet one in real life the question they all ask is “what’s your body count?”
when I tell them I get a disgusted look usually and get ghosted .
one time I was told I’ve been ran through by a guy who I thought was so sweet. It just sucks
I’m more than the men I’ve slept with I have cool hobbies and interests and I’ve got a nice job after graduating high school.
I guess I’ll be cheap in every man’s eyes.
Netizens’ comments
- Ironic how everyone says body count doesn’t matter yet somehow it does…
- That’s crazy I don’t even know 36 people in real life.
- This is one of those circumstances where I feel that being bothered and not being bothered about how many people your partner has slept with is equally as acceptable as the other.
You shouldn’t be ashamed of your past, but you should also accept some people don’t want to have a partner who has slept around.
My boyfriend has slept with more women than I’d care to admit, but it was all when he was younger and I don’t care one bit. But for some reason I’d be extremely turned off by someone who slept around in their 30s.