I was studying at poly when I met her. She initiated the first convo by saying you look like my ex-boyfriend. To which I replied I look like myself and in the first place why are you still thinking about your ex-boyfriend after the breakup move on? She was like can I sit beside you please, I was like you may.
She frequently offer me food, snacks, and sweets which I would politely refuse. After class, she will ask me to teach her the topics that the lecturer went through. I told her to concentrate in class to which she will say you are so smart that’s why I’m asking you. I told her it was 10 pm and I need to head home. So instead I told her to send the questions which she doubts my WhatsApp and I will guide her she did. I worked out the solutions with clear steps and send her. She was like thank you for this Saturday are you free to coach me on my weak modules? I fell asleep and didn’t reply to her.
At 4 am she started calling me non stop and by the time I looked at my phone it was 6 am. There were 49 missed calls,30 WhatsApp messages, and 5 Facebook messages. I thought it was some emergency, When I called her she was like can you come now and teach me? I got agitated and immediately said no.
In class, I ignored her and moved away. She was like waiting for me at the school gate and confronted me. I told her she is behaving like a juvenile. She started crying and pleading for forgiveness and my other friends were watching I was like I forgive you stop crying and head home. She wanted me to help her one last time to help her do last min revision and pleaded with me that she would trouble me after that. I agreed to meet her at our school canteen, I do carry a phone to take notes and pictures of the teacher slide when he teaching. She was aware of this. I went to the washroom and came back my mobile was missing I searched for it high and low but I couldn’t find it. I asked her she was like you suspecting me she hurled vulgarities and walked away.
I was devastated not just because I lost my mobile as it was a gift from my mom and she was not alive then. That phone has all her pictures, voice records, and videos of her cooking.
After graduation, she messaged me and asked me if I could be her reference for her new job. She begged me and I felt it’s someone rice bowl and I should help her one last time and stop talking to her.
Her hiring manager called me and I gave good feedback eventually she got the job. She thanked me. I didn’t text her after that.
2 months later, she emailed me saying all her colleagues are avoiding her the hiring manager also doesn’t have a good impression of her. She blamed me for all this, I explained to her I got nothing to do with all this she didn’t believe me and started cursing me saying I won’t prosper in life. I was fed up and I blocked her.
Now she messaging our mutual friend asking for my forgiveness!!
Everyone, please tell me how you all feel and what will you guys do if you were in my shoes.