I wish I was attractive to men other than my husband
I got married to my husband at 19, he was my first ever boyfriend. We’ve now been married almost 8 years and we have 4 children together.
I’m finding myself feeling utterly unattractive and self conscious… I really wish that other men found me attractive even though I don’t want to cheat, I wouldn’t cheat, but it just feels really bad to feel unattractive.
I wish men would flirt with me. I feel like I really wasted my prime by getting married and having kids so young…
And especially now that I’ve lost a lot of weight and I’m finally… Not fat… I just wish somebody appreciated it. I wish I felt appealing.
I just feel like I’ll always be unattractive and gross even though I’m still relatively young.
Netizens’ comments
- Sounds like a case of FOBO to me. This is generally how cheating starts. You should talk to your husband.
- That’s a slippery slope you’re trying to go down, tread cautiously.