I knew this guy long ago when I was about 20 years old. He’s 2 years younger than me. We chatted and started chatting everyday. I moved to another country twice before returning to Singapore and for a couple of years we just text and video called.
When I returned to Singapore 7 years ago, we met up for the first time for a casual date. We grew close, he’s attracted to me but I was a bit skeptical about being in a r/s with someone who’s younger than me. Our nature of texts and video calls became more sexual over time. We became FWB. No intercouse ever happened but we did make out.
We talked on and off and eventually I got into a relationship and got married. He still text me once in awhile. I responded as a friend, trying not to bring up anything in the past.
But there was once I had a huge argument with my husband, and I responded to him seductively. I regret that, but it seems to trigger whatever he had for me again.
Fast forward now I have 3 kids. He still text me like once or twice every few months. I tried blocking, ignoring, and even scolding. I firmly told him I don’t wish to hear from him anymore. Eventually I’m back to blocking and ignoring. But he seems to have so many numbers. He seems to make so many new accounts as well.
Idk if he uses that to chat other girls as well, but he definitely uses different numbers and accounts in different platform to chat with me.
I’ve ignored him for so long and I grew tired of suddenly receiving his text.
I don’t wish to tell my husband about it because I regret what I did and not like I want anything to do with him anymore.
I’m afraid, though, that one day he just finds out this guy’s text popped up on my phone.
He would text me flirtatious things or even lewd things.
I really don’t know what to do anymore.
What else can I do??