My husband and I are newlyweds. Both 25. We married only in January. In march my husband said he wants to take a break from living together because he is depressed and wants some alone time.
He said that we will both not date other people and that it would be absolutely disrespectful and wrong if we see other people because he just needs time to feel better. I told him i agree and that if anything changes and he decides to date others, immediately let me know so we can divorce because I’m not ok with extramarital stuff. He said yes he would let me know but he’s not interested.
Well, I just found out that he started the break on march 28 and registered for a dating site the same day. On April 1 already a girl messaged him and they’ve been talking every day and are in a relationship. I even asked him 2 weeks ago that if you have a gf i won’t be mad but tell me the truth so we can divorce.
Because he stopped texting or answering the phone but he lied. I only found out yesterday because he said we need to divorce immediately because he’s marrying someone else.
But I think she’s not who she says she is. He says that she told him she’s 18, working overseas and will come to be with him and they will marry and be together forever because she is perfect and he would never hurt her. Why would someone overseas look for someone in SG without even being here physically? The biggest thing is he has never heard her voice, and she won’t send a picture or talk on video call with him. I am pretty sure it’s a 47-year-old PRC scammer living in a basement.
What hurts is he asked for a break on march 28th and replace me immediately like it was nothing. He calls her the exact same nickname he called me, from all the nicknames he could have chosen. And he writes her the exact same words that he wrote me when I met him on online dating. He showed the messages he sent her.
He lied since april and only now told me. It’s like I’m completely replaceable.