I am with a girl since last year end and recently I have noticed a few challenges in our relationship. To be clear, she is a very admirable and diligent girl and I love her very much.
But after a recent quarrel I have started to realise many differences between us. First off, I feel as if she pushed too much of her ideals onto me both emotionally and physically. Yes, she is an over-achiever among our peers. But does that justify her being inconsiderate and asked me to and I quote ‘why can’t you be better’? Note that I have always had a trauma and stress from my family side already as my siblings are all top tier human beings.
After the get better incident I have found my hatred for her grow from the inside and every time we have quarrels it just grows even more. And also, she cries every time something not in her favour happens. A few days ago she said something that got onto my head and I became moody and she started crying. As if she expects everything to be solved by having tears. I’m sorry I can’t fulfil your wish of dating a kdrama oppa who licks your knees every time a tear of yours drop. Nowadays I feel defeated, some times annoyed even every time she cries. Just because she cries SO OFTEN. LITERALLY.
Plus it is very unlikely we will be in the same country in our future and all sources of mine says ldr doesn’t work.
What should I do. Should I still hang on the little thread of hope? Or should I just follow along my conscience that tells me that I should stop wasting time?