A man recently shared a story on Facebook on his reasons on why he is not getting a girlfriend despite having a good background and looking decent.
He stated that he has his reasons to seek alternative love from KTV instead of finding a proper one.
Here is the story:
My parents, my friends and my other relatives have always been asking me why I do not have a girlfriend.
The answer is short and also simple. I have not met the right one and I have been single for over 3 years.
I rather go to KTV and play different kinds of part-time girlfriends to satisfy my desire rather than to find a permanent girlfriend.
Why?
If I so desperately try to find one and don’t fit it will end up in sadness. I rather every day find different girls trying different delicacies no need to eat the same flavour every day.
Having a permanent girlfriend is not only a commitment of just time it is also a money and emotional investment.
I do not have to deal with mood swings and money issues. The KTV girl got mood swings? I changed to another girl. I don’t have money? I stay at home.
No need to worry if the girl suddenly needs me or what. It’s not commitment issues, I am in mid-20s, and the female friends around me are of the same age.
I can say I matured faster than them, as girls around my age are more bothered about superficial stuff like buying branded or being an Insta-Ho.
Although friends have been scolding me saying it’s unhealthy, seeing my friends always coming to me to drink beer after quarrel with their girlfriend. That is definitely more unhealthy.
I see a lot of guys desperate to get a girlfriend out there, but those who eventually get one are always not truly happy.
Most of them have two kinds of problems:
They find a foreign girlfriend then next comes the money issue
They find a local girlfriend than in later stages of the relationship they go find “lup sup” services. (This is true, I have a friend who is known as “Holy man” in his 30s and later on discovered the “fun” at a later age who eventually divorced.)
Not only am I playing the KTV life early I am also waiting for a more mature person.
Am I wrong to say this?