Hey this is not a troll post so moderator please don’t filter this away as I really need some advices. Please pardon the bad grammars
Background info: i am 21F & I have a bf who is 23M. We are both in university & we reside in residential halls/college. We would spend time together during the weekends & I would go over to his rc to stayover
My boyfriend’s love language are physical touch & quality time while mine are the complete opposite.
Whenever I’m sleeping, he would touch me inappropriately on my upper part of my body which made me feel really uncomfortable. I was woken up by the act multiple times & I tried covering up but to no avail as he would eventually try to reach out as much as he could & I felt really violated.
FYI we have not reached the stage to do all these hanky panky yet but it is the fact that there wasn’t any consent & it was done when I’m sleeping. I tried brushing this matter off but this incident is still etched in my mind even after 5 months. I have yet to confront him with regards to this matter. Guys, what should I do if you were me?
Here are what netizens think:
- I have friends who date for 8 years and 10 years and they broke up before getting a BTO.Don’t use the duration of your relationship as a measure of your commitment level
- Couples quarrel is normal but also depends on situation. Since u both can resolve it means ure good. Arguments will never end but as long as u two talked through it, it’ll be fine. Just dont argue too extreme
- The period doesn’t matter, as long as both agree and feel comfortable to try. We started balloting for a flat after dating for 6 months. I was the one who suggested it.
- Many years ago i heard from a friend who was in her 60yo that rs about 2 years then get married. Since u feel insecured about your bf. Think thru. Getting bto is as good as rom. Wait till then many things to argue from renovation to wedding to giving birth