How do I tell if a girl loves me or my money?
I am with my girlfriend for a few months. As a rs newbie, I made the mistake of telling her about my finances too early in the rs and before I know her well.
I earn an above average income and also got lucky in my recent investments. I’m not filthy rich but the savings I have is substantial for my age group and she knows about it.
I have noticed that her behavior sorta changed after I told her. She has shown much more care and concern towards me, showered me with attention and in general treated me much better than before.
She comes from an average family and doesn’t spend money recklessly but she did casually mention that she wants to live in a condo some day.
I really don’t want a girl who is more interested in my money than me. I can’t ask her directly as I won’t get an honest answer anyway.
I just find myself doubting her more these days, analyzing her words and thinking of breaking off.
Netizens’ comments
If you really want to, tell her you lost a substantial amount of savings due to investment issues. See how she reacts.
If she still stick with you, will you stop doubting her going forward? If she test you the same way, like tell you she needs financial help due to family issues, will u pass the test?
I dunno man. I feel if it comes to the stage where there’s so much mistrust, maybe you don’t love her too