I’ve been dating my bf for a year, a few months into the relationship he told me there was a girl obsessed with him for a few years. She was an ex classmate who had a crush on him. Initially he tried to give it a go with her, but it didn’t work out so he ended it. He told me they weren’t bf/gf but he got to 2nd base with her. He told me she didn’t move on since. He told me he rejected her not because of her size. He just didn’t feel any chemistry.
The girl has a pretty face and has no lack of suitors so I believe she must have a pleasant personality. Just that when it comes to my bf, all logic went out the window for her.
She often comes to my bf and tries to make small talk, ask about homework, and often get ignored by my bf. He was rude to her whenever I noticed and I didn’t understand why until later.
Months later, the girl found out about me. He just wanted me to be aware and told me to ignore her and her friends who always stare at me. He also warned her to leave me alone. We are all in the same course.
I trust my bf has nothing with her now. I also believe my bf had wronged her. I caught her glaring at me a few times and I was able to ignore it. He said she will avoid places we hang out because she couldn’t bare to see us together.
Once while I was chatting and laughing with my friends, I looked across the canteen and accidentally had eye contact with her. I looked away and continued to talk to my friends. I totally forgot about her after that. When I left the canteen I thought I caught a glimpse of her glaring at me with angry, red teary eyes, I didn’t think much of it.
A while later I got a call from my bf. My bf said she accused me of laughing and gossiping about her. He already told her off. But he wanted to know if I did laugh at her. I was unhappy he actually believe I would have the time for petty drama. I’m also starting to feel tired and annoyed by this girl’s obsession with him and constant hatred for me. Even her friends glare at me. It’s ridiculous. We have many mutual friends and I get the sense things are awkward because almost everyone knows she’s obsessed with my bf.
When he asked me again if I did laugh at her, I told him off. I also said if he didn’t really like her, he shouldn’t have had the chance to see her topless. Because he gave her a chance, it also resulted in this situation now. It’s not the first time she try to accuse me of doing or saying anything about her. I really feel like telling her off for good but at the same time I also kinda pity her.
Actually from the way my bf describe her, I would never dare to tell her off in case she hurt herself.
What can I do?