18F here, my mum hates it when i touch the stove her usual complain is that it makes the whole house stinks and Idk she just hates it when I cook or bake.
So recently, Ive been wanting to go on a diet and also save money and i came across smth on tiktok it’s this “Electric dormitory boiling pot” where it’s self heating etc.
u can basically cook in it and stuff I went to tell her abt it hoping she wld allow it since i wont be touching her kitchen property and she jst keeps saying stuff like “Its nt gd cuz u cnt control the heat.” “The whole hse is gnna be on fire because of u.”
It seems to me as if she doesn’t feel how desperate i am to learn to cook or try to cook for myself. She complains that the whole household have to eat whatever I want to eat every single time so i srsly dont get why she doesnt allow me to cook??
And every single time I cook, which only happens once every 4-6 months is when she’s asleep and Ill secretly cook and when she wakes up she’ll say how she can smell whatever Im cooking?
I don’t get why she never lets me touch the stove despite her constant reasonings it still doesn’t make sense. I told her i want to eat healthily she jst told me to buy it outside or that she’ll cook it for me but what i want is to cook whatever i want whenever I want.
And back to the electric pot, how do i convince her to let me buy it? It’s honestly rlly stressful that she doesnt let me cook its so hard to plan out my meals and everything, i have to always waste money packing food from outside.