Gaming boyfriend unattractive
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Not sure if it’s just me but I find my boyfriend’s obsession with gaming very childish and unattractive. He’s already approaching his 40s.
I have nothing against gaming but hey, like there are so many other fun things to do and learn. It’s just very unattractive when he spends almost all his free time sitting in front of the computer and games like an addict.
I am really trying my best to see past this but it is just REALLY UNATTRACTIVE at his age how much time he spends gaming. Help!
Here are what netizens think:
- Well, I game myself almost every night from after work till midnight, sometimes more on weekend and I’m way past 30 going 40s (and also happily married). I game since my teens. Does he have a stable job? Does he pay his own bills? Does he still go out with you for dinner and date on both your free time? If yes, then there is perfectly nothing wrong. It just a hobby and downtime for us. Everyone has different hobbies. Similar to how some ladies watch K-drama “obsessively” every night till 2am (I find K drama boring as well). My wife has other hobby different from me (dance, which she does without me because I find it only “mildly ok”). Unless he is unemployed and does nothing else but game. Then his life priority is questionable. Otherwise, I find you questionable.
- Gaming is awesome. What’s wrong with it? As long as you can keep up with other life obligations, it’s one of the cheapest and least dangerous hobbies around. One also gets to do all the things in game that aren’t so popular outside. Eg. I’m happily playing Rimworld / Warcrime Simulator and that way no one needs to be turned into human leather hats in real life.
- Gaming is better than he find habits of finding ladies outside without knowing. I rather he game all day at least u still got me time to do things for our ownself
- Eh, what’s your interest? If you have other interest then have a clean break with him before moving on to finding someone else?
- You RATHER HAVE AN ALCOHOLIC THAT BEATS U?