I (28 f) and my ex (30 m) were divorced for 8 years.
We share a 7-year-old son together and he had a daughter with his current wife.
The reason for the divorce was that he was cheating on me with another woman (not his wife) and I found out by the text message he had on his phone. His new wife is an absolute sweetheart. She would always greet me whenever I picked up my son since we share custody or invite me to family events.
She was very friendly and decided to help co-parent for my son’s sake. Recently, she and my ex had a fight. He made a comment about her body and she was furious. I would be too because she had his daughter not long ago. I found out by my son and decided to help her.
She was always helping me out and I wanted to return the favor. She was judging her body by a full-length mirror and seemed pretty sad. I encouraged her that she was one of the most beautiful women I ever met and gave birth to the most beautiful angel there is.
That comment made her feel a bit better. I found myself turning her around and soon we kissed. This led to lovemaking. Honestly, it was one of the most amazing things that happened to me. After it stopped, she told me that I was beautiful. This made me feel more loved.
Never once, not even my ex, had told me I was beautiful. This made me feel happy and good. We soon got back to normal and soon the guilt soon met up with her. She mentioned that she cheated and that she needs to say the truth to my ex. I don’t want her to. There was already drama as it is. Honestly, if they do get a divorce, I want to date her. I’m inlove with her and want to be with her. She made me happy and is the most perfect woman I’ve met. I wanna be there for her and her daughter.
Treat her daughter like mine. Like she does for my son. But I don’t know. I need advice on what to do. Does my ex deserves this? Should I have pushed her away? Am I the bad guy?