Why is dating so hard in Singapore?
26/M here, so one of my resolutions for 2022 is to date someone and hopefully settle down with her a few years down the road. Till date, I’ve dated a girl for 4 months, another for 1 month and recently just ended things with another girl after dating for just 1 week. Might sound like a player but trust me, I got played real hard.
I’ll summarize what they told me when I asked them how we should proceed with our relationship:
4 month girl: I like you a lot, just not how you want me to so I was really struggling (basically friend-zoned). I don’t think I should date you cos I can’t be the best of myself and that’s unfair to you.
1 month girl: Sorry I decided to give my ex another chance (her ex asked to reconcile when we were seeing each other) and I am not over my ex.
1 week girl: I don’t know what I want and I feel like we’re moving at different paces and dating isn’t a priority for me now.
Sorry just wanna rant, I think I’m generally a decent guy myself but I just haven’t met the right person. That’s life but I’ll still be actively finding the one, wish me luck everyone!