Boyfriend says I’m boring in bed when we have it 6 times a week
So I’m a 23F and my boyfriend 24M of a year and a half told me last night he finds sleeping with me boring. He was very rude about it.
I’m enthusiastic and initiative. Always wanting it. He told me that a guy at his workplace is doing ‘exotic’ stuff with his girlfriend. Hand cuffs, outfits etc.
Now I have a good collection of nice underwear and revealing outfits. Fair enough I don’t wear them all the time.
I bought some green underwear (his favourite colour) and he said he didn’t like the bottoms because they covered my bum. He also said to surprise him with lace underwear but ‘ I never do’.
I’ll happily wear something if he likes it but he says I won’t because girls he has been with before say they will and don’t.
What I’m trying to get at was why would he say this? Am I boring or is he being childish?
Netizens’ comments
- Comparison is the thief of joy. Sounds like bf has heard some stories and feels like his buddy is having some activities that’s built up to be crazy and dreamlike.
Now he feels like he’s missing out on some elusive exoticity that makes you feel high.
Ironically, if his focus was a little more on practically maximising in front of him, he’d probably have that with you - That dude doesn’t know how good he has it