I have been in a relationship for about half a year.
We started talking and I was quickly smitten. We exchanged numbers and soon we were going on dates, taking long walks in the park and enjoying each other’s company.
Discovered that my boyfriend likes to dress like a girl
Little did I know that my boyfriend was into a hobby that I found disturbing – he liked to dress up in a feminine way. He had a closet full of girly clothes and he would often wear them in public.
He said it made him feel confident and free.
At first, I accepted his hobby and tried to be supportive. But as time went on, I started to feel uncomfortable. I was embarrassed to be seen with him in public and I was even more ashamed of myself for being with someone who enjoyed dressing up in a feminine way.
Couldn’t take it and chose to end the relationship
Finally, I couldn’t take it anymore and I decided to end the relationship. I told him that I could no longer be with someone who liked to dress up in a feminine way.
He was devastated and begged me to reconsider, but I was firm in my decision. I was scared of what others might think if they knew I was dating someone who liked to dress up in a feminine way and I was too ashamed to keep going.
So, I ditched my boyfriend. He was heartbroken and I felt terrible for hurting him, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I never saw him again and I haven’t heard from him since.
I still think about my ex-boyfriend and how he made me feel. He was kind and caring, and he was always willing to listen to my problems and offer advice.
I miss him, but I know I made the right decision. I can’t be with someone who likes to dress up in a feminine way. I won’t let shame and embarrassment dictate my life anymore.
Unfortunately, this wasn’t the happy ending I was hoping for. I have to live with the fact that I hurt someone I cared about and that I let fear and shame take control of my life.
I can only hope that one day I can look back on this experience and learn from it. Until then, I’ll just have to live with the consequences of my decisions.