My husband’s colleague is trying to get him to hook up
I recently discovered my husband’s colleague is trying to hook up with him.
I got to know of this because my husband came clean with me. He told me one of his colleagues has been texting him inappropriate things and sending him suggestive pictures recently (think sexy lingerie, cleavage shots, suggestive poses etc).
For context, this colleague just got married and my husband has known her for ~4 years. She has never came onto him like this before this incident and their relationship was purely work related. (Or so my husband claims)
My husband showed me the texts between him and the colleague and I did see him rejecting her saying its not appropriate for her to say such things to him given that they both have their married partners etc. She said in her texts that she wanted to see if she stood a chance because she really likes him.
I just wanted to know, do you all think my husband is being honest? That their relationship is purely work related and there’s nothing going on between them? And why is his colleague being such a slut? Trying to seduce someone else’s husband when she has her own? Can someone really stoop that low?
Here are what netizens think:
- Do not doubt your husband and throw a fuss at this point. He came clean willingly. If you give him a negative experience, next time he will never tell you anything. The fact that he came clean also means he is siding with you. Just remember the mantra, keep your man’s stomach full and balls empty and you’ll have a fine family.
- Text her back this way: Let’s keep things professional. If you continue to harass me, I’ll have no choice but to report you to (boss’s name). Then block her. No need to entertain people like that. If your husband refuses to block, there’s something amiss there. Between colleagues, there’s no need to text, email do just fine.
- Let your husband be free. As they say, if you love him, set him free. If he loves you, he will come back.