I have been with my bf (20M) for a year. We also live together and are very happy. But ever since we started dating it was apparent to me that his D smells a little funky.
It always has a fish-like smell, even right after he showers. It’s a little less after he showers but it is still prominent.
If I enter a room where he self pleasured in, the entire room will smell like fish. It is weird to me because I’ve seen him in the shower, he washes everything thoroughly.
We also get tested regularly (I have a paranoia about STDs so I test every couple months) and we were completely clean from everything.
Now I’m thinking this smell might be there because he loves to self pleasure couple times a day and I know that he showers every day — but he never showers right after it.
So the dried come will be in his underwear, under his foreskin etc for hours and hours. Sometimes I smell it through his clothes when I’m sitting next to him.
It is the reason why I almost never go down on him except right after he showers. How do I confront him about this in a nice way that won’t make him upset?
I know I would feel bad if someone sat me down and started talking about my genital smell so yeah. Thanks for the advice.