As a first timer out with a friend at a bar at Orchard Tower, I had no idea what to expect.
We had gone drinking at many random establishment many times in the past, so I figured the night would be no different than the countless others we had went out together.
Little did I know that this night would record one of the newest experience in my drinking adventures.
Siam bu wanted to know me and wanted me to go back to her place
The moment we stepped into the bar, I noticed a hostess in her mid-thirties behind the bar. She had an air of confidence about her and a sparkle in her eye that made me feel like she was sizing me up from the moment I walked in.
My friend and I decided to grab a drink and take a seat at one of the tables.
She came over almost immediately to introduced herself and asked if she could drink with us and we started to play some games (five-ten/direction) and talked a little.
Before I could say anything else she began talking to me in a way that was a tell tale sign that she was interested in me.
She asked me questions more than what the typical hostess would ask to customers. She was friendly, but it felt like she was really trying to get to know me.
I tried my best to give polite but vague answers, but she kept pushing.
Kept trying to ask me to go back with her
After a few more minutes of this, she asked if I would like to come back to her place after the bar closed.
She said that she was living with only two more other colleagues and each of them had their own rooms so there would be a lot of private space for us.
I was taken aback and flattered, but I politely declined. She seemed disappointed, but she accepted my answer.
We stayed at the pub for another hour or so before my friend and I decided to head home. As we were leaving, the woman approached us again. She asked if I was sure I didn’t want to come back with her and gave me her address.
I was so taken aback that I could barely respond. I thanked her for the offer, but reiterated that I had to decline.
She seemed disappointed, but accepted my answer and wished me a good night.