World of married Netflix drama IRL
I was with this guy for about 5 years now. I only truly known him till today how is he as a person.
Background of our relationship
A little background within the time we are together, he was the sweetest the most loving and honestly some friends where even jealous how he could and can be so sweet.
Sweetest to the point that while eating, he will notice that you have hair falling and he will brush and tuck your hair back.
Always treated me as his princess that he love so much. I am not a person that trust or had anyone so long in a relationship before. He made me feel loved when I’m with him.
Knows how to talk, but its all sweet nothings
However, he doesn’t stick true to his words and always give empty promises. He is someone who eloquent and know how to speaks. I guessed, you can say he smoked me into it and I gullibly believe him words – or to say lies.
He wasn’t a person that do what he says and he will always blame someone and everything else except himself. This is one trait that I really hate and have looked pass.
Slowly as days goes by, more things started to surfaced out. He used to smoke cigarettes before and after getting to know me, he knew that I don’t like when a guy smoke and he gradually reduced and kick it.
However there are devices like vapes, and he goes around convincing me yet again that is he using vape as a substitute in turn to try and quit. Which I agreed and know about it.
So now that I realised, he been saying that but I have not seen him vape in front of me at all. I was so stupid and have not question or asked why you didn’t vape in front of me even when I allowed.
So this is where things comes in play, there was once that I caught him with a vape device causally in his pocket and I questioned him.
He confidently answered and told me that it wasn’t his and pushed the blame to his best friend (who also vape). He cooked up a damn good story saying that the vape is his friend and that he was helping his friend to keep it.
So how the vape was with him is because of some cheap juice that they bought which he is trying to help him friend stop taking it. And that why he took it away!
I had doubts but I still give him chances and believe it. Tucked this at the back of my mind.
Long story short, I know finally know the truth now and how much efforts he actually takes to cook up, fabricate lies in order to give me the appearance that he was not vaping at all.
I was in shocked and the truth that I have learnt about. His friends told me the truth and that he was vaping all these 5 years and has no intention to quit at all.
He even got his friends to fake some evidence to send to me so that I’ll believe it. He has also asked all of his friends to keep mum about this to me.
if you even watch the show, I was literally the main lead and exactly how I felt
To top it all, this wasn’t all that he has done. I have given him chances to come clean about it and yet he didn’t took the chance and continued to lie to me.
The very fact that he has no intention to tell me the truth was shocking and I cannot believe that I was with someone who can just lie so confidently and have so much faith in it.
It was so scary and something I can never understand why was I so dumb.
What’s more? He even done illegal stuffs like taking hemp drugs and I even have evidence to prove it about the effects that he and his best friend were feeling it.
GUESS WHAT, he still can continue to deny the fact that he has done all this. Upon confrontation with his best friend – his best friend has already admit it, but yet HE STILL CONTINUE TO LIE. He can even say that it was not the product that whatever his best friend was taking. It was something else.
Can you even believe that is happening? For me now, I was shocked and speechless and was in no words that I was with someone like this. To think that I was about to have a future with him in the coming years..
This one essay won’t be enough to fill it alll, but in short. He was this kind of person.
I really like to know if anyone has faced anything like this before? Are they even considered human? Or am I just stupid?