At the beginning of our 5-year relationship, we had s- almost everyday and it just went downhill as time passed.
The intimacy suddenly stopped
Reasons given were tired, lost interest in s- over time etc. I did everything I could (within her boundaries) to spice up our s- life such as purchasing s- toys but to no avail.
I thought maybe on my birthday it would be different. But no, she pushed me away as well. It really made me feel unwanted.
We had a honest talk after and she said she just doesn’t enjoy s- as much as I do. I also asked if she’s not satisfied with the “quality” of our s- life and she said it’s not the case too.
She just doesn’t want it anymore.
For the record, both of us are really loyal and faithful people so no one cheated. At least for me, I can never cheat. As long as I’m in a relationship, I’m a one-person person.
Anyway, this happened during the three-year mark and we continued a relationship with no s- for another two.
Broke up because to me, a relationship is not considered one without s-
In the end, we broke up. Physical intimacy is important to me. I loved her but we no longer gel on this point. We can never, based on the conversation we had.
It has been another two years since we broke up and neither one of us is seeing someone else right now. I tried but it didn’t work out.
You might be wondering why break up then? If you take away the s- part, we are really just like friends.
Call me selfish if you wish, I do not want to deprive myself of a potential relationship should I meet someone in the future.