I can’t believe what I’m hearing. My husband just admitted to having a mistress outside. I’m so angry that I can’t even speak.
He reminded me that he was also married before and meeting me cost his marriage
He must have noticed my anger at him for find a mistress, so he quickly retaliated with something even worse. He told me that I was his mistress too, the last time he was married to his ex-wife before me.
At this point, I’m completely speechless. I can’t believe he would stoop so low as to compare me to his mistress and blamed me for breaking up his marriage in the past.
He was the one who told me that he had no more feelings for his ex-wife and asked me to be together with him at that point of time.
I was so hurt and angry that I just wanted to scream at him and make him feel the same way I was feeling.
But I knew it wouldn’t do any good. He was determined to make me feel guilty and he had done a good job of it. I tried to stay calm and think of what to do next. I knew I needed to confront him about his actions and put an end to this mess.
At this point, I had had enough. I couldn’t believe he was trying to justify his actions and make me feel guilty that I was also a mistress to being with.
He tried to argue even more but I was done listening. I told him that I wanted nothing more to do with him and that I was done.
We are now at the stage of talking terms and honestly maybe it is my karma for breaking up someone’s marriage which is why someone came into the picture now to break up my marriage.