For the past few months I feel that my bf doesnt prioritise me as much compared to before and has been putting less effort .. its like back then it was lvl 10 of effort and now lvl 3.
I also recently started noticing that hes becoming a mummy boy. We recently went overseas together and hes been giving live updates to her 24/7 and when I called him out for not posting me on his ig anymore like he used to, he told me he wanna enjoy the moment with me but at the same time hes busy texting his mom the entire time instead.
We also got into an argument bc he was going to his relative’s house and he said he will leave my place at 6pm, he then received a call from his mom and her telling him that shes otw to the location and he immediately ditched me two hours earlier than the agreed timing. He then blamed me for being selfish and taking away his family time when all i needed was to find out why the sudden change in attitude bc at the start of the rs, he would do whatever to maximise and spend more time with me knowing that both our love language is quality time.
Im more upset at the fact that i got baited than anything else? If only he didnt treat me like that from the beginning maybe i wouldnt have this high standards from him and when I told him how I felt hurt and neglected lately, he got furious and said how I dont appreciate his efforts anymore and hes loyal? As if being loyalty isnt the bare minimum
Here are what netizens think:
- Honey moon period over. This is the guy. See if you want to have a peaceful conversation on this with him.
- Are you sure that’s his mum or he’s just lying about how he spent his time? Cus if he uses mum as an excuse surely you got nothing to say to stop him. Level 10 to level 3 means you lost your value liao. You probably have been too available for him. Guys lose interest easily this way.
- Welcome to the reality of dating 90% of local men. If they’re not still attached to their mom, it’s because you have become their mom. And when you start refusing to be their mom, they’ll run crying back to their mom.
- you’ve dated 9 out of 10 men or 90 out of 100 men to arrive at that “conclusion”? Because statistically, only the first one might be possible.
- What kind of mummy ah? If she is the kind to give all kinds of sweetness, you no horse run liao.