To women who earns less than 4k a month.
I don’t know you. But I’ve met women like you. I totally get why you made such sweeping statements about men. No one likes to be rejected. I can tell you one thing. Even women who make less than 4k a month can get men. But would you reject the men who want you? You can be an 8/10, and probably won’t even give men who are 5/10 a second look as you deem them as not good enough for you. When you intro your 5/10 friends a 5/10 match, and they reject, you call them superficial. But when you did the same to an 8/10, 9/10, 10/10 friend, it’s ‘ok’ or perfectly normal if they don’t like the looks, cause, well, ‘looks matters’ at the end of the day.
I get it.
Everyone wants the best for themselves but what do you have that the ‘best’ must accept you?
I’m guessing from your post, not only you are not a high earner, nor a high flier, you have the intelligence and personality to nab the type of men you’re after. So what does that leave you?
Back to me. Yes, that 5/10 guy.
But the advantage men have is that even a 5/10 can become an 8/10 with money. I can be 40 and still date women from 20s to 40s while a woman of the same age. Lol. Saggy boobs, wrinkles hidden by all the injections. Even if you came back to me, I didn’t have the best version of you…and your body then. So why should I, a 5/10, accept a former 8/10, now at 40, with a body of a 5/10?
If a woman have enough good points but don’t make enough money, most men will be willing to stay around and work together with you. Trust me, you wouldn’t want a woman who will be with you just because you can earn 20k a month. Just like all people who want to have a relationship, we want someone who is willing to be with us through thick and thin. All you need to do, is to look past the 5/10’s flaws, just as you would so profoundly speak of how 5/10s should just go for each other.
Focus on what you can work on. Calling out 5/10 men who goes for looks just as 8/10 men do, well, is just hypocrisy. We all have the same set of eyes, and that doesn’t mean we deserve any less than what we want.
But above all, I still have faith that women like you would be able to find someone one day. He may not be your first choice, he may not be a perfect 10, but I can assure you, as long as you play your part as a decent person, lover, boyfriend or husband in this partnership and help each other blossom, he can become a perfect 10 in your eyes.
5/10 guys FTW