My dad told my husband to make sure get rid of evidence of cheating
Found out my husband cheated on me online and I was crying and shouting and my dad told my husband that next time he cheats, make sure he deletes evidence and be careful. (?!?!?!?!?)
He is a serial cheater himself.
My mum has suffered enough and I can not believe that’s what he told my husband . My mum on the other hand, thinks that I should forgive my husband and not fight with him because his one year of online cheating is only online.
What kind of parents does this???????
MIL also told me that what his son did was just like looking through a adult magazine.
How was it online cheating? He was on multiple dating apps and websites, had video calls where he self pleasured and talked to women, had a different instagram accounts to reach out to the girls, conversations and video calls, etc.
Update
All the pent up anger, rage and wanting to hurt him back just literally drained me. He was drained and I have never seen him age as fast, he gained so much weight because of stress and honestly as much as I want to be a good person, I cant help but tell him he deserves it loll.
I could tell he is sorry and he regretted it, he took all those rage from me and never fought back. He also showed he changed- blah blah but I just realized there is no saving myself if I stay with him. I became the worst person in the world without the trust. I just couldn’t have any peace of mind with him.
I have completely cut contact off him BUT he can still talk to his son provided that it’s on my son’s term, not his. He can only see him if my son wants too, not when it’s convenient for him. My one and only rule tbh. They communicate through messages and calls, but I have nothing to do with him.
It took a while and honestly I am happy where I am right now. I also decided to go low contact with my parents. I just message them every now and then to ask if they are okay. I just couldn’t bring myself to cut them off completely.