Girlfriend wants a break
Yesterday my girlfriend randomly told me “I saw a good looking guy at this cafe” I got a bit frustrated because it feels like she wants to say something with it.
Earlier this month she photographed a guy she found good looking. I don’t appreciate it and yesterday she got mad because she felt I raised my voice because she did this.
She then said that “This isn’t working we need a pause or something” and then when I asked her again if she wants a pause she said “I don’t know”.
I told her on iMessage that I “want this to work and but if she doesn’t think we can work it out we might need a break”
Pretty sad over this. We have had some problems previously
Don’t get why she says “I don’t know” when I ask her now if she wants a break. She haven’t replied since yesterday.
Netizens’ comments
- It’s over bro. Work on yourself. You’ll find someone better.
- I looked at your previous posts and wow. It seems neither one of you is happy in your relationship. I’m pretty sure she doesn’t want to be with you, but for some me reason she doesn’t want to be the one to be the one to end things. Do yourself a favor and leave her. You deserve so much better.
- Break up completely. She is pretty much telling you she wants to be with other men also. The break is so that she can because you won’t accept it.
- Don’t ever go on a break. They’re useless. Just split
- Yeah, she’s looking for an excuse to bang other dudes without technically cheating. The relationship has run its course, let her go and find someone who respects you.
- Brother. Fight fire with fire. Take the break, explore your options. Maybe you photograph some beautiful women. Then tell her about it and watch for her reaction. If she explodes at you, walk. If she says it upsets her, walk. Respect yourself enough to not let anyone take the piss