When dating, girls tend to prefer it if the guy can make the decisions when it comes to choosing where to eat. So when deciding where, if the girl says “Idk i anyth also can”, then the guy decides to eat at a very crowded subway fastfood restaurant (crowded until have to share table with other ppl that kind) that’s nearby.
Would it make the guy seem more attractive due to his assertiveness/decisiveness (despite picking a very crowded place), or would it had been better (for the girl) if the girl had made the decision on where to eat instead?
She mentioned she’s ok with “anyth”, but its not unlikely that she would had liked it better if they ate at a less crowded place with a better ambience, or at least just choosing a not highly crowded place would had been much better than not.
What do you girls think?
Here are what netizens think:
- End of the day, just let the girl decide. You get to live one day longer. We all know the mind games. Asking you to decide is a gentle nod to manners. But it’s a bit like the splitting bills conundrum. If you don’t pick up the tab, you’ll still be arro…Â
- Not all girls are the same so don’t assume. Who said all girls prefer that guys pick where to eat? Overall most girls like it when you show thoughtfulness and consideration. If you ask her and she said anything, give 2 her choices? If your observation skills is good, after a few more dates you will know if she’s really ok with any food and place or if she has preferences. End of the day, it’s ok to ask and communicate.
- It’s quite common for younger people to play mind games with one another, direct communication is more effective and encourage her to do the same so that both of you will have a more fulfilling time together.
- It’s very simple. It’s 100% your responsible to make sure you pick a place she likes. If you get it right, it’s your lucky night. If you get it wrong, then I can only sing you a sad song. Wake up and smell the coffee, and welcome to manhood.